Love, Marriage and Positive Living

By Daniel Jordan Smith and Benjamin C. Mbakwem

Access to antiretroviral (ARV) treatment: ARVS enable people who are HIV positive to live longer, healthier lives. Photo by WHO/Eric Miller.

Introduction
As access to antiretroviral (ARV) therapy increases worldwide, attention has begun to turn to the effects of treatment on prevention, and specifically the sexual behaviour of recipients [1]. Much of this work has been conducted in developed countries and has focused on homosexual men [2-4]. Research in developing countries has addressed the possible connections between treatment and risky behaviour utilizing mainly quantitative data from surveys [5-8]. Few studies have considered the sexual behaviour of people on ARV therapy from the point of view of marital and reproductive goals [9], and little ethnographic research has been undertaken on the topic. This report focuses on preliminary ethnographic research conducted in southeastern Nigeria, examining particularly the intersection between antiretroviral treatment and the life projects of marriage and reproduction.

Therapy and Life Projects
The concept of life projects is introduced to emphasize how people’s social aspirations and trajectories influence their behaviour in ways that are not easily predicted by or understood purely in terms of medical priorities. In particular, as people realize that HIV/AIDS is no longer a certain death sentence, they strive to actualize their most important goals, which in southeastern Nigeria – as in much of the world – include marriage and parenthood. Although ARV therapy enables people with HIV to hope for and undertake these life projects, it also continues to interfere with them, and achieving these larger goals frequently impinges on people’s capacity to stay on therapy, follow recommended treatment regimes, and take adequate precautions to protect others (and themselves) from further infection.

For unmarried adults who learn they are HIV-positive, the devastation of the diagnosis comes not only from the fear that they will die young, but from the realization that they may die without marrying and having children. Until the advent of ARV therapy, the cliché that HIV/AIDS was not only a physical but also a social death sentence was the perceived reality in Nigeria. Stigmatization was produced not only by the disease itself, but by the fact that a life cut short by AIDS was often a life without reproduction. With the possibility of treatment and a prolonged life, among the most important goals that people receiving ARV therapy pursue are the life projects of marriage and childbearing.

The Research
Here we report on findings that are the result of several years of research by the authors in southeastern Nigeria, funded largely by the U.S. National Institutes of Health (grant #: R01 HD041724) as part of a larger study, “Love, Marriage and HIV.” Since 2001, the Federal Medical Centre (FMC) in Owerri, Imo State has served as the only facility in the southeastern region offering ARV therapy. In 2006, following a new national policy of free drugs and plans for a massive scale-up, the FMC-Owerri began expanding its government-supported program with a target of 2,000 patients. By July 2006, more than 1,800 people were enrolled. Over several years, we interviewed dozens of people receiving ARV therapy.

Chinyere’s Story and Life Project
The case of Chinyere (a pseudonym) is illustrative. Early in 2003 she went to a private hospital very sick. She was admitted at an institution notorious for its unwillingness to treat HIV cases. After a short stay at the hospital a nurse asked Chinyere to follow her to the doctor’s office. Barely able to walk, Chinyere dragged herself into the doctor’s consulting room. As she sat down he held up a piece of paper (her lab result) and shouted: “Look at you! The sin of fornication has finally caught up with you! Before I open my eyes I want you out of this building. We don’t treat people like you here.”

She eventually received treatment from another doctor who willingly cares for HIV patients. Her health improved and at that time she did not enrol in the FMC-Owerri ARV program. For many months Chinyere felt fine and she put her HIV status out of her mind.

Later the same year, Obi (a pseudonym), a Nigerian man based in Europe whom Chinyere’s family wanted her to marry, came home for a visit, partly with the idea of determining whether Chinyere was the woman for him. In contemporary southeastern Nigeria, young people increasingly choose potential spouses independent of their families’ preferences, often based on an ideal of romantic love. But the role of families in suggesting possible spouses and advocating for (or rejecting) particular unions remains prominent. Men who have migrated overseas are particularly likely to seek help in finding a good girl from home to marry. Just before Obi was to return to Europe, Chinyere fell sick and was too ill to escort him to Lagos for his departure.

Enrolment on ARV Programme
After falling sick, Chinyere enrolled in the ARV programme. She began to get well physically, but she felt she had bigger problems – the possibility that her HIV infection would derail her marriage plans. During Obi’s visit things had gone so well that they had initiated the first steps in the traditional marriage ceremony and Chinyere had moved in with her future mother-in-law. Soon after Chinyere started on her ARV drugs, Obi arranged to have the next steps of the traditional wedding ceremony done in his absence. In the week leading up to the traditional ceremony, Chinyere developed rashes all over her body, a common reaction to Nevirapine, one of the first-line drugs in the ARV combination commonly provided in Nigeria’s ARV programme.

Survival Strategy
Chinyere was frantic about her appearance, worried that someone might guess that she had HIV. She eventually informed her mother-in-law that she had an allergic reaction to an everyday medication and this was the story conveyed to the larger traditional wedding party. Chinyere made it through the traditional wedding without her HIV status being discovered, but she still faced the fact that Obi would soon come home for the church wedding, and she had not yet revealed her status to him.
The impending church wedding hastened her dilemma because she and Obi were Catholics and HIV tests were required of all couples wanting to marry in the church. She settled on the idea that she would go together with Obi for pretest counselling, pretend it was her first test, and feign horror when her result was revealed. She banked on the hope that Obi would stick by her when her status was revealed now that they were traditionally married, and that she would avoid the worse consequences of his discovering her longer-term deception.

Co-conspirator
On the appointed day, when she and Obi went for their results, Chinyere fainted dramatically. Her gamble paid off. Although Obi tested HIV-negative, he did not react angrily about her result. Indeed, once Chinyere’s status was known Obi became a co-conspirator in figuring out how to get married in the church. He could accept his wife’s HIV status, but he could not live without the social recognition of a church wedding and he personally arranged to secure a fake lab result for his bride to be. They married in the church and Chinyere eventually became pregnant. With the aid of treatment her child was born HIV-negative. She did not breastfeed the baby boy and again had to invent an explanation to cover her unusual behaviour.
Over time we lost contact with Chinyere, but at last report her marriage remained amicable, her child was healthy, and only she and Obi knew her HIV status.

Marriage and Parenthood
In our research we found that the most valued part of a life resurrected by ARV therapy is the chance to marry (or remarry) and have children. While the vast majority of people on ARV therapy at the FMC-Owerri are mindful of the continued risks to themselves and others, and committed to keeping themselves and their loved ones safe, the physical risks to personal and public health are factored into a larger equation in which the very reasons for being alive are always paramount. In southeastern Nigeria, marriage and parenthood, the principal tasks of biological and social reproduction, reign supreme in the hierarchy of social expectations and individual aspirations.

For many people on ARV therapy, the dilemmas of how to marry and make families while living with HIV are resolved, or at least addressed, by seeking partners from within the communities created through treatment and the support groups that have been established as a result. At the FMC-Owerri, a support group has become a principal network for people seeking sexual partners, possible spouses, and eventually pregnancy and children. But not everyone who is HIV-positive can or will find love or marriage within the support groups.
The lives of people living with HIV remain naturally intertwined with the wider population of people who do not know their status. Life projects, especially reproductive life projects, continue to pose ethical predicaments, public health risks, and existential dilemmas. Whether, when, and how to disclose one’s HIV status; how to marry and have children in ways that meet social expectations and achieve personal ambitions; and simultaneously how to stay healthy and on drugs – these are priority issues for people living with HIV who have been provided another chance at life by the availability of ARV drugs.

ARV Therapy and Stigma
While the availability of drugs has the potential to eliminate the social and biological death sentences previously associated with HIV/AIDS in Nigeria, the scaling up of treatment has not yet significantly reconfigured the landscape of stigma. As a result, people on ARV therapy continue to try to manage their treatment mostly in secret. In many cases the resurrection of reproductive life projects can prove to be an obstacle to adhering to therapy and vice-versa. For people who rely on antiretroviral medicines to live, the continuing stigma of the disease means that the very drugs which have restored their futures also threaten to undermine their most precious life projects. The drugs themselves, so valued for their physical effects, can be reminders of the enduring difficulties and discrimination associated with HIV/AIDS.

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* Daniel Jordan Smith is the Stanley J. Bernstein Assistant Professor in the Social Sciences and Assistant Professor of Anthropology at Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island, USA.

Benjamin Mbakwem is the Programme Director of Community and Youth Development Initiatives in Owerri, Imo State, Nigeria.

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