Politics, Rights and Identity About Same-Sex Marriage in South Africa

By Vasu Reddy and Zethu Cakatha

 


Introduction
The Supreme Court of Appeal in 2004 declared the common-law definition of marriage unconstitutional. This decision followed an appeal by Marie Fourie and her partner, Cecilia Bonthuys, which resulted in mixed public reaction. Phumlani Nxumalo (74) from Orlando West, not too far from Johannesburg, was appalled at the court’s verdict: “Even animals of the same sex don’t take this route. We have lost ubuntu bethu” [1]. Unsurprisingly, a lesbian couple, Mbali Nkosi (19) and Joy Mbatha (18) said they were overwhelmed by the outcome: “We were thinking of eloping because we always felt that South African law was insular and unfair to us. But now we are relieved because it is no longer only about the so-called straight people” [2].

The idea that ‘ubuntu’ (humaneness or humanity) is lost through the accrual of rights for lesbians and gays, suggests that such rights, according to their opponents, should not be guaranteed. That the virtues of ‘ubuntu’ are only morally sanctioned within a heteronormative model implies, in our view, a very limited perspective on equality and human rights.

Legal victories and policy reform have benefited the construction of lesbian and gay identities in South Africa (See Table 1). Such victories have progressively promoted claims to citizenship and nationhood.

However, the struggle for identity is reinforced in the case for same-sex marriage. Elsewhere in Africa, Anglican Archbishop Peter Akinola of Nigeria claimed the US Episcopal Church created a ‘new religion’ by confirming openly gay Bishop Gene Robinson in November 2003 in New Hampshire [3].

Same-sex marriage connects two central ideas: first, the history and meaning of homosexuality; and second, the history and meaning of marriage.

In most African states homosexuality is still criminalised and even actively policed. Such criminalisation is fuelled by the notion of the ‘un-Africanness’ of homosexuality, despite overwhelming evidence of the historically traceable presence of African lesbians and gays, and of same-sex practices on our continent.

The main issue about homosexuality in most parts of Africa less its denial than the fact that homosexuality is viewed in heteropatriarchal terms as a behaviour rather than an identity. Such a perception characterises homosexuality as a perverse desire associated with pathology, and signals a return to a biomedical and non-cultural understanding of human sexuality. The case for ‘marriage’ in many African countries remains a distant ideal, given the prohibition and criminalisation of same-sex practices. Our sexualities, by no means representative of a uniform experience, confirm that pleasure, desire, and belonging reflect deep-seated political conflicts over identity, bodily integrity and morality [4].

The far-reaching judgements (See Table 1) since the formal adoption of the South African Constitution have systematically advanced the administration of justice that facilitates identity formation for lesbians and gays. While the apartheid social and legal system criminalised homosexuality, the post-apartheid landscape has shown progressive decriminalisation which recognises lesbian and gay identities [5].

'First it was the abortion law, now same-sex couples can marry'
As an institution marriage is an important property of the state. Such an institution is also accorded a special privilege by most religions. Viewed as an arrangement for procreation and the nurture of children, marriage is seen by patriarchal organizations and traditions as a part of the natural order requiring a mixed-gender relationship (man and woman). Marriage is not simply a symbolic institution that affords a legal status to a civil relationship, but also raises jurisprudential issues about the State’s relationship to its citizens.

Marriage rights do not apply to most gay and lesbian couples because same-sex relationships falls outside the scope of the legal definition of marriage. The case for the redefinition of marriage in South Africa is in some respects a test for the post-apartheid state’s recognition of lesbian and gay citizens as full members of the polity The Constitutional Court (hereafter CC) decision of 8 December 2005 in favour of same-sex marriages demonstrates this. The decision of the CC upholds a Supreme Court of Appeal ruling in November 2004 that said same-sex couples could get married following the application by lesbian couple Marie Fourie and Cecilia Bonthuys.

The 2005 decision by the CC requested that courts change the common law definition of marriage from being a ‘union between a man and a woman’ to a ‘union between two persons.’ The CC indicated that it was the task of the South African parliament to make the necessary changes within twelve months. Legal reform resulting from this positive decision by the court strengthened the development of lesbian and identities further by securing rights that strengthen citizenship. It is for these reasons that it is difficult to erase sexuality from its relationship to the law and citizenship.

The meanings attached to marriage revealed in the debates on marriage equality are important. A cursory review of public opinion suggests that same-sex marriage turns on basic attitudes towards sexuality and gender.

At the heart of the gay and lesbian lobby’s defence is the right for everyone to choose the circumstances in which they live their lives. Marriage is one possibility of a full citizenship (which includes the right to equality and privacy). This view is underpinned by the conception of the gay rights movement as a public demand for respect for homosexuals (which includes the right to dignity). Consequently, the primary benefit of marriage is the extension of citizenship rights that facilitate the assimilation of gay and lesbian individuals into the mainstream of society. Such a view does not imply that all lesbians and gays endorse marriage; for many, the need for marriage is disputed, as it signals the assimilation of a heterosexual model.

Some feminists view marriage as an institution which regulates and controls sexuality (female sexuality especially) and strictly imposes a gendered division of labour (even though this is changing, the situation of many women in such relationships remains unchanged). The ‘marriage’ strategy, especially as advanced by many activists, seems to be motivated by the need for the normalisation of homosexuality.

In contrast, homophobic arguments mobilised against same-sex marriage are informed by fears of reproductive relations, gender roles, and the role of children and adoption, and are voiced usually in terms of a moral/religious perspective. For example, Johanna Bonoko stated that “first it was the abortion law, now same-sex couples can marry […] we’re heading for disaster” [6]. In the same interview, Carol Makhanya cautioned that the decision reflected that the decision was one of “the signs of doom and corruption […] man has turned his face from God”.

The focal point of the social structure of marriage, for those opposed to same-sex unions, is a traditional understanding of the family. Underlining the fear of equal marriage rights is a moral panic that introduces the notion of the family into the dispute about marriage. To some extent the debate about same-sex marriage invariably slips into a moral argument about what constitutes a family. In the case against same sex marriage, ‘family’ is conceived as a social institution, biologically determined in terms of patriarchy. Marriage is viewed as a space for the moral development of heterosexual parents and their children.

The Civil Union Bill in South Africa
Despite ongoing public debate about the issue, South African lesbians and gays woke up to new possibilities on 30 November, 2006, after Deputy President of South Africa, Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka (acting as president on this occasion) signed the Civil Union Bill into law in Pretoria on 29 November.

The new Civil Union Act of 2006 provides for the formal and legal recognition of gay and lesbian partnerships with the same rights as conventional marriages. Among some of its provisions are the following:

  • Any two people aged at least 18 may enter a single civil partnership which they could call a marriage which will carry all the rights of a marriage of the existing Marriage Act. Partners may legally refer to each other as husband, wife, spouse or partner.
  • Any marriage officer may solemnise such a union under the Civil Union Act, and such an officer may equally register objection to the law and decline to officiate at a same-sex marriage.
  • Churches are not obliged to register under the Civil Union Act, but they may do so if they choose.
  • Partners wishing to marry need only produce a South African identity document or an affidavit confirming their identity.
  • People who previously married under the Marriage Act or Civil Union Act will need to produce proof of divorce or a certificate confirming the death of a previous partner if they wish to remarry.
  • The ceremony requires a taking of hands but not an exchange of rings and is completed with the question (‘Do you A take B as your lawful spouse (or civil partner if the couple prefer the term)’ and is sealed with the traditional words: ‘I do’.

The Civil Union Bill means that the traditional Marriage Act remains intact and available only to heterosexual couples. It provides separately for a civil partnership or marriage for same-sex couples, to the disappointment of many activists. Despite this limitation, the parallel marriage law catering for lesbians and gays suggests an affirmation of identity in the progressive development of a rights-centred jurisprudence. The institution of marriage implies a practical and symbolic guarantee of equality for two people of the same-sex to formalise their commitment to each other. The question of choice therefore remains central.

Conclusion
The legal recognition of a civil union for lesbians and gays suggests a journey towards social justice. Marriage is a dynamic institution, always in transition, and is increasingly losing some of its sacred appeal and becoming secularised. The latter, in our view, is not a sign of weakness in the institution but rather a reflection of its response to social change and growing inclusiveness. We have witnessed changes to the nuclear family, alternative family arrangements, and new ways of being in the world in the broad development of our sexualities.

The case for same-sex marriage reflects much contestation (most recently reflected in the Nigerian bill to ban same-sex marriage). We must remain vigilant about the prospect that rights do not necessarily sustain justice. The victory in South Africa confirms developing freedoms for lesbians and gays, but does not resolve the persistent threat of homophobia, prejudice, stigma and persecution, reinforced by religious and cultural intolerance. The leader of the Council of Traditional Leaders of South Africa, Patekile Holomisa, recently stated at a national congress that the Constitutional Court erred in ruling civil unions between same-sex partners be legalised: “We will continue to inform our people this is something we don’t support […] It is taboo […] If you accept this [being gay], you might as well accept people having sex with their relatives or with animals for that matter.” [7]

Sadly, such views reconfirm for us the need to hold onto struggles for rights, to reinforce public education, and to challenge discrimination. The journey means that democracy comes with risks that we must continuously fight to protect.

References

1. ‘Same Sex Marriages’ (2004). Sowetan, 1 December: 3.
2. ‘Same Sex Marriages’ (2004). Sowetan, 1 December: 3.
3. SAPA-AP (2004). ‘I didn’t write the Bible’. Daily News, 11 October: 8.
4. Reddy, V. (2004). ‘Sexuality in Africa: some trends, transgressions and tirades’. Agenda, 62: 3-11.
5. Reddy, V. (2005). ‘Moffies, Stabanis, Lesbos: The Political Construction of Queer Identities in Southern Africa’. Unpublished PhD thesis, University of KwaZulu-Natal.
6. ‘Same Sex Marriages’ (2004). Sowetan, 1 December: 3.
7. Du Toit, C. (2007). ‘Chiefs Bash Gays’. The Citizen, 19 February: 1-2.

* Vasu Reddy (PhD) is a Chief Research Specialist and Acting Director of the Gender & Development Unit, Human Sciences Research Council (Pretoria, South Africa). He is also an Honorary Associate Professor of Gender Studies in the School of Anthropology, Gender & Historical Studies at the University of KwaZulu-Natal. He is the co-founder of the Durban Lesbian & Gay Community Centre (http://www.gaycentre.org.za). E-mail: vasureddy@hsrc.ac.za

Zethu Cakata is a Senior Researcher and Doctoral Intern in the Gender & Development Unit, Human Sciences Research Council (Pretoria, South Africa). E-mail: zcakata@hsrc.ac.za

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